How do i define my hair layers?

Ok well i got my hair cut very choppy and lots of layers and it looked awsome in the salon. But my layers dont stand out at all, and even though i used the same products as my hair stylist it just doesnt work!

How can i get my hair like this--

The top part of her hair.

http://smg.photobucket.com/albums/v651/h...

How can i define my layers like the top part of her hair?

Oh yah and i straighten my hair so something that works with that.

And NO POMADE, WAX, OR PASTE! those all make my hair really gross and greasy!

Thanks so much!

How do i define my hair layers?

try a texturizing cream-- KMS has a good one as does redkin-- I know you mentioned no too any wax, pomade or paste-- but try a paste by johnathan-- you can find him on sephora.com or qvc. he has a product called dirt-- it is amazing and it won't leave your hair feeling gross.

How do i define my hair layers?

Use a tiny bit of texturizer just on the parts you want to define.

How do i define my hair layers?

well ...for the bangs a straight iron will work. part your hair to one side and straighten it. you use a curling iron for the rest.

How do i define my hair layers?

by adding a tone lighter or darker high lights

How do i define my hair layers?

I know what you mean about products making you hair greasy. I'm actually the total opposite, I have short spiky hair but the same problem with the greasy issue. My hair is razor cut so it looks choppy but only when I use Bed Head Cocky. That is absolutely the only thing I can use that's not greasy but really works well separating hair for that choppy look. Hope this helps.